Choosing a console is the hardest part, you have your loyalty and I understand that. I love the battle these two consoles have but they have a great respect for each other. Yesterday the PS4 was released and Microsoft tweeted them a Congratulations on the release. The Xbox One has yet to be released but i want to see how Sony will react to the release of it. I like how Microsoft said that to the release of the PS4 it shows class and that may win some people over to there side. I don't know I guess we will see when the selling reports come out later this year. 

   Now back to helping you with choosing one. These are both great consoles and they both have there better features and there flaws but you will have that with any other console. I believe friends is the best way of choosing your console, I know you can gain friends through other consoles but it is nice to have friends you know, that you can play with. But if you don't care about that go with your loyalty or what you like the best about one of the consoles but you can always go Pc gaming! :p